So Megan tells me this morning that she "has to" be a Mommy when she is a grown up. I tell her that she doesn't have to be a Mommy, that she should do whatever would make her happy.
"Being a Grammy or a Memere would make me happy, Mom, so to do THAT, I have to deal with being the Mommy first. Sigh."
(Yes, she actually said "sigh"!)